I thought there was understanding

I really did; I thought my husband was more understanding to what I am going through. 

We had this conversation a few days ago, and he told me that if I had to leave my job we would make it work financially. But then I said last night that I was going to put in my 2 week notice, and he started to freak out about the finances.

Seriously, which is it? Is it ok ? Or not ok?

I am exhausted. I want to try to run my home business again, he says it would be worthless to try. I am slowly getting to my wits end on this matter.